We’re well into our summer here in Atlanta and with that has been the challenge of keeping the kids stimulated, busy and happy. With two active boys, it can be quite difficult to walk the line between two kids playing peacefully together and all hell breaking lose when one oversteps the unclear boundaries, knocks over the Lego tower or picks the wrong car to play with.
I can’t count the number of times I yell “Boys!” down the hallway or “Work it out!” or “Use your words!”Some days it seems like I’m more referee than mom and I’m exhausted from the cacophony of whining complaints about what the other is doing and the timeouts for grabbing/shoving/hitting.
Don’t get me wrong. There are moments of pure brilliance. Of the older one teaching the younger how to do something better. Of one building off the game of another and creating a brand new adventure. Of giggling. Of love…
…because, I have discovered, apparently the older one sneaks out of the top bunk to tuck the 3 year old in after he falls asleep. Tuck him in. Seriously? How absolutely adorable is that?
So now, when they are at each other’s throats about whose turn it is to pick the TV show tomorrow, I’ll just remember, that behind closed doors, in the quiet of the night, they will still take care of each other.