I pounded the pavement hard for my first job out of college. I was moving to a new city and lacking in personal and professional contacts. I networked when possible, I scoured the relevant trade want ads and, finally, came across what ended up being my first professional job.
After that, my professional moves were all part of the it’s not what you know but who you know cliche. And boy, did that make life easier.
Here I am, five years removed from the working world and that who you know thing still rings true. A friend convinced me to meet with her husband, whose start-up company is growing quickly and in need of some PR help. She assured me he was interested in someone part-time, was open to a work at home arrangement and all I had to do was hear him out.
I walked into that meeting expecting one of two things: it would 1) be a few writing assignments here and there and a great way to keep my toes in the water or 2) be a bad fit – no harm, no foul.
What ended up happening was me walking out of an office building, my head spinning at the incredibly exciting opportunity that was presented to me.
Now I find myself, a few short weeks later, employed again. I’m knee deep in babysitter interviews and background materials. I’m floundering my way through how to organize my day and wondering if the laundry will ever be folded again.
The thing is, I wasn’t planning on going back. This was supposed to be the year of ramping up to the on-ramp. The year of planning and exploring and deciding. Instead, I find myself thrown back into the deep end.
And the strange thing about it? I am loving it. Sure, we’ve only just begun, but it’s exciting. It’s new. It’s challenging. It’s mine.
The most awesome part of the whole thing has been the overwhelming support I’ve received. My family and friends have encouraged me, talked me off the ledge when the panicked “what abouts” came up and stoked my confidence when it wavered. Knowing that I have such a fantastic network of support (lead by the uber supportive hubby) to back me up made taking this leap of faith a lot easier.
So if I’m a bit absent from this space, be patient. I’m sure I’ll have lots of new stories to share as I navigate this new work/life tightrope. And for all of you experienced working mamas – feel free to share your best bits of advice for me. I could use all the help I can get!
In the meantime, I’ll be dusting off my heels. Time to put them back to work.